I am a firm believer in the Providence of God; I believe that He is in total control of all things and all events, in my life and in the life of any other person, be it a believer or a non believer. Calvin was of the same opinion, in fact he dedicates a whole chapter of his greatest book to this very subject, here are some paragraphs for your delight:
"...we must consider that the Providence of God, as taught in Scripture, is opposed to fortune and fortuitous causes. By an erroneous opinion prevailing in all ages, an opinion almost universally prevailing in our own day, viz., that all things happen fortuitously, the true doctrine of Providence has not only been obscured, but almost buried. If one falls among robbers, or ravenous beasts; if a sudden gust of wind at sea causes shipwreck; if one is struck down by the fall of a house or a tree; if another, when wandering through desert paths, meets with deliverance; or, after being tossed by the waves, arrives in port, and makes some wondrous hair-breadth escape from death - all these occurrences, prosperous as well as adverse, carnal sense will attribute to fortune. But whose has learned from the mouth of Christ that all the hairs of his head are numbered (Matt. 10:30), will look farther for the cause, and hold that all events whatsoever are governed by the secret counsel of God...
...And truly God claims omnipotence to himself, and would have us to acknowledge it - not the vain, indolent, slumbering omnipotence which sophists feign, but vigilant, efficacious, energetic, and ever active - not an omnipotence which may only act as a general principle of confused motion, as in ordering a stream to keep within the channel once prescribed to it, but one which is intent on individual and special movements. God is deemed omnipotent, not because he can act though he may cease or be idle, or because by a general instinct he continues the order of nature previously appointed; but because, governing heaven and earth by his providence, he so overrules all things that nothing happens without his counsel. For when it is said in the Psalms, “He has done whatsoever he has pleased” (Psa. 115:3), the thing meant is his sure and deliberate purpose. It were insipid to interpret the Psalmist’s words in philosophic fashion, to mean that God is the primary agent, because the beginning and cause of all motion. This rather is the solace of the faithful, in their adversity, that every thing which they endure is by the ordination and command of God, that they are under his hand".
Many times in my life I look at the circumstances in which God has placed me, and my natural (carnal as Calvin says) inclination is to complain that they do not fit into the image I had in my mind as to how things should be; then almost immediately I remember who God is, and put my hand over my mouth in repentance; it is not a good thing to complain that God has seen it fit for me to go through adversity, the less when I remember that, one of the very promises that has been engraved in my memory is that which Jesus made: "in this world you shall have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world".
That sentence: "This rather is the solace of the faithful, in their adversity, that every thing which they endure is by the ordination and command of God, that they are under his hand"; must be true for me and for you, that is if indeed you are a believer in this amazing God who created us.
What does it all mean? It means that whatever my experience of reality is, God has planned it and ordained it to happen as it has happened, and it will continue to happen according to His wisdom, and (I believe) in His love for me and you. It also means that whatever you set your mind to do regarding righteousness and living, and whatever your heart is set to pray for, finds its origin in the most holy counsel of God's will; and even if failures look like failures, and evil looks like evil, God has intended it for good and that is exactly what the end will be.
Almost every one I know knows this verse, many know it by memory: (Jer 29:11) For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
That is the King James, here is the NASB: 'For I know the plans that I have for you,' declares the LORD, 'plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope'. (Jer 29:11).
Here is the Amplified Bible: For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and peace and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome. (Jer 29:11)
"Expected end", "a future and a hope", "hope in your final outcome"; they all mean the same thing, that God is on my side, and that, as David says, goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Some times I have very bad days, really bad indeed, and I know that you must also go through the same thing; today was one of those days; I could find no relief no matter what I did; and by God's providence I started thinking about His providence, redundantly, and I felt like finding an oasis in the middle of the desert; I ran towards that thought as if it were cold water in the heat of the day; what a refreshing thing it is to find it; fellowship with Jesus, as Spurgeon puts it, is the fountain from which the pilgrim drinks; and I am thirsty.
When I think no one cares, and we all do think that at one point or another, I pray that the Spirit will cause me to remember the providence of God, and to meditate in His perfections; and I do pray the same for you if you are reading this. I want to encourage you in your day, today, and tomorrow; God reigns over all things, and our faith makes it certain in our hearts. To live in this thought is worth it for me; I just could not live any other way, the lack of peace would drive me crazy. It is amazing grace indeed.
Have a nice day, again.
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